Advice: It would be interesting to know why Melanie brings Libby along when she's looking for men. Is she using your wife as "bait"? Melanie and her husband have become "swingers. Plus Melanie is very interested in meeting men when they are out together. I don't like what she and her husband are doing, and I don't like my wife being exposed to swinging and meeting men.
If you would have told me a year ago that I would one day watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I would have laughed in your face. Though my addiction had been curbed since meeting my husband, thanks to a combination of efforts buoyed by his support, would a salacious vacation reopen the wound? Why not a swingers resort? Weeks later, we arrived in Cancun in the rain. A funny taxi driver drove us to the secluded Desire Pearl, where smiling staff members greeted us in the lobby with champagne and waivers. Making our way to our room, staff members stopped whatever they were doing—sweeping wet leaves, carrying luggage, patrolling the grounds—to greet us, looking us straight in the eye as they held a hand to their hearts.
Generally speaking, most swingers are couples. I know because I spent just over four years as a unicorn and learned a lot about relationships, both in and out of bed. The club was BYOB with a strict no-drug policy.
And as I watched a grown man get penetrated by a pretty young blonde wearing a terrifying strap-on, I knew the image would be burned into my mind forever. His screams reminded me of the knee injuries I'd seen playing high-school football. They were interrupted by his wife's insistence that he take another shot of tequila to kill the pain. The blonde pushed on.